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Friday, July 15, 2011

The Girl Next Door


Aw, BabyCakes looks so sweet in that photo, doesn't she?

No wait! That's not BabyCakes!
THIS is BabyCakes (from a similar viewpoint... and a few months ago):


Lil Miss Strawberry is Neighbor Emma (daughter of Melissa). She is 9 months older than BabyCakes and in real life they look a lot alike.


Yesterday Emma, her Mom, and her younger sister Sara babysat BabyCakes and I during BigBoy's first day of school.  :)
We took a long walk around a small lake, played on a playground, and then went to our little downtown and had pizza AND frozen yogurt.  (Yes, I know how blessed we are to be able to do that on a Thursday morning.)
It was fun to do something JUST with BabyCakes who, by the way, had sweet Emma cracking up for several minutes in the pizza place.

Yessir, I told you she has personality.

Thursday, February 9, 2012

Adventures in Parenting

Last night was rough.


It was so rough, in fact, that J and I were injured.


We have actual parenting injuries.


No joke.


Let me give you a little rundown...


12:30: BabyCakes wakes up crying. Why? Who knows. Soothe her, give her some water, and back to bed.


12:37: Pee.


12:38: Wake J up adjusting myself in bed.


12:39-12:49: Quiet the to-do lists in my head.


12:50: Drift off.


12:51: BabyCakes wakes up crying at her door gate. Jump Use my imaginary pulley system to get myself back out of bed and repeat the baby-back-to-bed routine again.


12:55: Climb back in bed.


12:56: Dang it.  I forgot to pee and I MUST pee before I can go back to sleep.


12:57 - 3:30: REPEAT THE ENTIRE PROCESS CONTINUOUSLY.

3:31 - Check BabyCakes' temperature and determine she is not sick.  What the crap, girl?!

3:35 - Decide to be a good wife and sleep on the couch so that my hard-working husband who has to get up all too soon can hopefully catch a few hours of uninterrupted sleep.

3:36 - After peeing, drag blankets out of the linen closet to make up the couch.  Trip on the baby gate I left open and roll my ankle. Curse the day I became a woman.

3:39 - Hear Rapunzel (the hamster) running in her wheel.  Try to telepathically make her stop for the next 20 minutes.


4 freakin a.m. - Limp on sore ankle with hamster to kitchen.  Pee.  Back to couch.


4:03 - I still hear the hamster wheel.  Now I'm hot.  Hobble to switch for fan, then bathroom.  Couch.


4:06 - 5something - Drift in and out of sleep having those freaky dreams where you think you are awake but then it turns out you were still dreaming.  Finally decide BabyCakes is out for the count and hobble to bedroom and cozy up to a warm husband.


5something + 30 seconds - Hear the hamster who is now in the kitchen, much closer to our room.  Put hamster back in living room.  Climb in bed and have brief nightmare about hamsters, mice and rodents of all kinds taking over my house.


5something + Ihavenoclue - Hubs is up for work.  His back is very sore.  Try to massage some of the pain away but it doesn't help.


5:45 - BabyCakes is walking in my room.  Don't move. Maybe she won't see me.  


5:46 - Use what little energy I have left to pull her into the bed.  She sucks her thumb and snuggles up in my arms.


5:47 - Realize having moments like this make the whole night worth it.


Well, kind of.  ;)

Tuesday, September 13, 2011

BabyCakes' Nursery Changes

Before you read this post, please forgive the photos.  The lighting was not great.  If you'd like to compare her new room to her original nursery, you can see that post here.

In case you hadn't noticed, BabyCakes is quickly leaving behind the baby part of her nickname.


She's turning into a little girl.  One of the things she learned to do a few months ago was reach over and turn the overhead light on while standing in the crib.
You can imagine that that caused some problems during sleep time.
Because the desk and dresser are attached with straps to the walls, my obvious solution was to shift the bed closer to the closet so she could no longer reach the light switch.
I did that, but after months of having six inches to retrieve her clothes and the vacuum I store in there, it got OLD.

So, I moved the bed again.  I know it's not the prettiest layout but it's what works best for us right now.

(Notice the toys on the floor?  I left those out for you to get a feel for how her room really looks.)


See!  I can now fully open the closet door!


The basket on the floor houses all her babydolls.


I added a removable hook to the end of the crib so we can hang her outfit for the next day, her jacket, whatever.
Like those wrinkles?  Just keepin it real, folks.


She still has lots of bows.  Many have come and gone but we always find one to make it work.  :)


Instead of the baby blankets that once lived here, we now have baskets to help keep toys organized.
(They are not this dark in real life.  Again -- bad lighting.)


That's her play kitchen in the corner. There is actually still a lot more room than it appears and the kids have no problems playing in there.
Like I said, not the prettiest layout but it works, and that's what's most important.


 Things have to change over time.